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Welcome to my 2nd blog - or RosesandTea x 2. This blog is for more serious, controversial or specifically Christian entries. I hope you will enjoy your time here.

If you are interested in my craft work (especially crochet) or more of my everyday life (I don't blog about everything, but things that may be of interest, as I am an American living in England), please visit my main blog, Rosesandtea1962 .

Previous posts of note: Reviews of chapters of Created to Be His Help Meet: Chapters 5 & 6 Chapters 7 & 8 Chapters 9 & 10 Chapters 11 & 12 Chapters 13 & 14 Chapters 15 &16 Chapters 17 &18 Chapter 19 Chapter 20 (More of my thoughts which springboard from Chapter 20) Chapter 21 Chapters 22 & 23

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Apr 11, 2005
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from Sheri's last interview question.  I thought I would bring it over here.  Sheri asked me, on my other blog, http://rosesandtea.blogdrive.com, what were some of the differences in culture in the US and England.  I gave some more general ones on the other page, but when I hit things more specific about Christianity, I decided to put them here.

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There are much fewer church goers/committed Christians here as a percentage of the population. This has effects on the culture, I think.  And the Christians here, are not as open about it as far as more trivial things are concerned - i.e. bumper stickers, identifying one's shop or business as belonging to&nbsp;a Christian (no signs on the door saying "Closed Sunday - See you in church" for example).&nbsp; I'm not trying to be positive or negative about this as I'm not sure what I think completely, although I do think I find it encouraging when I see evidences of Christians in the community.

I did use to think, when I was in my 20's  that things like all these Christian businesses, Christian bookshops, Christian radio stations, made it easier to be a Christian or at least be a nominal one (the culture allowing more weeds to grow up with the tares maybe) , and that the absence of these things (or their rarity) would cause Christians here to have to work more to be stronger or to keep up a greater level of commitment.  They'd be more sincere, I thought.   But after 15 years I don't think that anymore.  There are many fine Christians here but easily the same level of nominal-ness that there is in the US and perhaps because there are fewer Christians there seems to be much less vigorous dialogue and action about various things - much less willingness to step out into the deep waters or new things.  I'm not sure if that is good or bad.  The number of Christians in each country certainly means that in the US you can have greater number of churches and although fragmentation is bad in one sense, being able to choose a group a little more in line with your beliefs means you can participate a little more freely and perhaps move more in the direction you feel God is calling you, instead of having to constantly hide what you feel God is speaking to you about because you are the only one who has the belief about ____________  (insert some non-heretical, but secondary belief here, like modest dressing, gifts of the Spirit, homeschooling, whatever).

The fact that there are fewer churches here, mean that in the non-denomination evangelical churches at least (where most people go if they do not feel they match the few other churches available to them in their area), you have groups of people of various backgrounds and beliefs.   This is a strength in one way, as it keeps the focus on the main things - Jesus, salvation, witnessing, etc.   But it is a weakness in that everyone has to stay at or near the lowest common denominator and it is hard to find ways of sharpening your iron if everyone else dismisses the idea of 6-day creation (not a problem in our church) or the idea that one should be active in __________ (again, fill in the blank).   One can't get real deep sometimes, because the fellowship has to stay on the main 10 beliefs level.

Just some thoughts. 


 


 


 


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Posted at 06:06 am by Rosesandtea
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Apr 7, 2005
Great quote

This quote was sent to an email list I am on.  I thought it was worth sharing. 
 

"Adapt yourself with gracious and charitable compliance to all your neighbor's weaknesses. In particular, make a rule to hide your feelings in many inconsequential matters."
St. John Baptiste De La Salle (1651 - 1719)  (Today is his feast day.)



I sure wish I had seen this early yesterday or the day before - before I blew it on an email list I'm on.  I usually don't rise to things that bother me, only occasionally I do, and this time was one of those times.  Sometimes my responses are just and right, but this time they were not.  I've apologized for my wrongness, but am definitely feeling "in doghouse mode"!  

Posted at 11:53 am by Rosesandtea
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Apr 5, 2005
Why didn't I think of this before?

 My little children like to paint.  I'm not too keen on it, simply because of the mess and the feeling that I have to stand over them the whole time.  But today, when my 4 year old son asked to paint,  I got to thinking, a la' "Flylady" that I can do anything for 15 minutes.  Or in this case, 30 minutes.    So I told him they could paint for 30 minutes.  We got the stuff out: aprons, plastic tablecloth, and paints.  I was able to get him to agree to the paints that come in bottles with sponge tips - you use them straight from the bottle with the sponge instead of using a brush. 

Usually ds3 and his little sister want to paint picture after picture - and they did do a few today - but knowing that it was going to be for only 30 minutes made it a lot easier on me.  After 30 minutes we cleared up, with no griping or anything.  Those bottle paints sure are a boon too - I had very little to clean up.  And as it was so pleasant, and I know now that there is an end in sight when we paint, I am much more willing to do it again, as opposed to when it was some long, open-ended affair. 

You may think, why the stress?  I don't know, I'm happy with doing other things that bother other mothers, but painting just taxed me for some reason.  At any rate, I will have to look for more ways to apply the philosophy "you can do anything for X minutes...." 

I got some more walls in the bathroom wiped down with bleach solution today.  Tomorrow some dusting I think. We're having a few days off from schoolwork and although I am enjoying the time off too, I'm trying to get a few cleaning tasks done that I normally don't manage during school time.

Posted at 03:03 pm by Rosesandtea
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Apr 4, 2005
More thoughts on SAHM-ism


Bear with me, I'll probably do several (short) posts on this topic, as I'm thinking about it in anticipation of my sharing my life/work with the youth group.

I realized that I had time, because I am at home to make my voice heard in ways I probably couldn't do if I were out working and had children.  (Now, other mothers might, but I probably could not.)

I had time, in between assigning and checking work, caring for the little children, doing household tasks,  etc, to read up on an issue (I'll leave it unnamed for the talk, but for you here it was the Terri Schindler Schiavo situation) and learn more than I would have by just seeing the TV news or reading the BBC website.    I was then able to get involved a little -  not a lot, but more than I would have - by blogging and by emailing the FL governor.

I also recently was on the radio - OK, it was a call-in show, but still - and only intended to give a brief comment about somthing, but the host, on hearing I was a home-educator, commenced to ask me a lot of questions about our home education, and I was able to talk a little about it.  Perhaps someone will now know that it is legal here, or have hope that they can do it, after hearing me.  I hope I did some influencing for the good, anyway, either about home-education or creationism (or at least Intelligent Design which is a good step in the right direction) as I spoke about my husband and other scientists' rejection of macro-evolution.

Had I been at work, or rushing around trying to get things done after being at work during the school hours, I would not have been able to make that phone call, which turned out to give more opportunity to speak out about things than I had planned.

So, there are two recent things I have been able to do. That may be small potatoes to some of you, but it's a nice start for me, and fitting for my life, which seems to be about many small things.

God bless you today.

Posted at 06:05 am by Rosesandtea
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Mar 31, 2005
Dear Terri,

How I hope to meet you in heaven.    I hope you are enjoying God's presence as I type this.

Rest in peace, Terri.

Posted at 09:41 am by Rosesandtea
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Mar 30, 2005
if, when you were younger...

... you heard from a stay-at-home mother (plus homeschooling one) during youth group meeting (for part of a series about faith and people's jobs), what would you have liked to have learned about?

 It's supposed to be like a testimony, and more about what I plan later, but I'd love to hear from you in the comments section.  I'm wondering what aspects I might ought to include.  thanks.

Posted at 01:55 pm by Rosesandtea
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Well here I go.......

Now before I begin with anything else, let me state that I know that Rosesandteax2 is a really dumb name.  It's just that Blogdrive insists that you put in numbers as well as letters.  I wanted to keep my main name in it, and just couldn't think of something with numbers that didn't overrun the limit.

This blog is for my more serious, controversial, or just more specifically Christian blog entries.  Or even just everyday homeschooling life, that I don't want to journal about on my main blog. 

I hope I will occasionally come up with intelligent entries.    Please stay tuned!

Posted at 07:17 am by Rosesandtea
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